{"id":515,"date":"2019-01-21T06:02:36","date_gmt":"2019-01-21T06:02:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/breaking-the-silence.online\/index.php\/2019\/01\/21\/me-and-my-penis\/"},"modified":"2024-09-14T06:25:04","modified_gmt":"2024-09-14T06:25:04","slug":"me-and-my-penis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amaliafoka.com\/breaking-the-silence\/index.php\/2019\/01\/21\/me-and-my-penis\/","title":{"rendered":"Me and my Penis"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"intro-text\">\n<p>Me and My Penis was a British television first tonight as it aired the first-ever erect <strong>penises<\/strong> on our screens.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span class=\"dropcap square\" style=\"background-color: #ffffff; color: #000000; border-color: #ffffff;\">We\u00a0<\/span>followed the artist Ajamu, who organised a series of <strong>portraits<\/strong> exploring the power of the <strong>penis<\/strong> and its attachment to forms of <strong>masculinity<\/strong> and power.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Channel 4 produced a serious open conversation to remove many stigmas, stereotypes and <strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>taboos<\/strong><\/span><\/strong> and to tackle <strong>body<\/strong> dysmorphia many <strong>men<\/strong> face with their <strong>penises<\/strong> and to tackle toxic <strong>masculinity<\/strong> in society,\u2019 one viewer wrote, before quipping that most social media users\u2019 reaction to this was to treat it as a joke.<\/p>\n<p>Watching #meandmypenis on channel 4.<\/p>\n<p>#meandmypenis on @Channel4 I applaud you \u00f0\u00f0\u00f0 Such an important message.<\/p>\n<p>Time and again the damage that the <strong>men<\/strong> have suffered was caused by sheer ignorance and bad sources of information. #MeAndMyPenis \u2014 Duncan Hothersall August 31, 2020<\/p>\n<p>Artist and photographer Ajamu, who heads up the doc, told Metro.co.uk: \u2018Lots of <strong>countries<\/strong> actually celebrate the <strong>penis<\/strong> in terms of its fertility, its aliveness and energy.<\/p>\n<p>Me and My Penis aired on Channel 4.<\/p>\n<p>Me And My Penis was a self-indulgent mess of a <strong>documentary<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A warning, as it transpired, of what was to follow on a self-indulgent mess of a <strong>documentary<\/strong> called Me And My Penis, which proceeded like a bad trip in Valvona\u2019s delicatessen.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-167 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/amaliafoka.com\/breaking-the-silence\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/penis-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The even worse news, though, was that Me And My Penis had artistic pretensions as well.<\/p>\n<p>Absolutely the worst thing about Me And My Penis, however, was an Emperor\u2019s New Clothes character called Ajamu, who rejoices in the description \u00abphotographer\/activist\u00bb, a combination almost as bad as actor\/politician.<\/p>\n<p>He thought this symbolised \u00abfertility and the idea the <strong>penis<\/strong> is an essential part of nature\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Justification for the rest? Well, Me And My Penis was, of course, about \u00abbreaking <strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>taboos<\/strong><\/span><\/strong>\u00bb.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"pullquote align-left\"><p>Me And My Penis\/30 Inches Tall And Turning 18.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Great TV lies and delusions of the week The Director-General of the BBC, Lord Tony Hall: \u00abNumber one, we\u2019re not the Woke Corporation.\u00bb Sunday Best, Roman Kemp: \u00abRolling In It is a must-see already.\u00bb Me And My Penis, Ajamu: \u00abI <strong>take<\/strong> <strong>portraits<\/strong> of d***s \u2019cos they have their own stories to tell but are still censored.\u00bb <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Says\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Says<\/a> a <strong>man<\/strong> who clearly didn\u2019t watch Gordon, Gino And Fred\u2019s Road Trip.<\/p>\n<p>Off on holiday AS you\u2019ve probably noticed, when you\u2019re having to fill the otherwise blank spaces in your column with a Channel 4 <strong>documentary<\/strong> called Me And My Penis, it\u2019s <strong>time<\/strong> to <strong>take<\/strong> a holiday.<\/p>\n<p>A former police officer is confessing to being unable to drive without his <strong>penis<\/strong> becoming aroused.<\/p>\n<p>Channel 4\u2019s one-off <strong>show<\/strong> Me and My Penis aims to break the <strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">taboo<\/span><\/strong> around the male <strong>sex<\/strong> organ and start a frank conversation about <strong>masculinity<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>In among the <strong>penis<\/strong> chat, we hear from a <strong>man<\/strong> in his 40s called Jason who breaks down sobbing while confronting his infertility.<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-168 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/amaliafoka.com\/breaking-the-silence\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/penis-2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/p>\n<p>At the heart of Me and My Penis is the artist and \u00ab<strong>sex<\/strong> activist\u00bb Ajamu, who is filmed taking intimate photographs of several of the <strong>documentary<\/strong>\u2019s subjects.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abIt\u2019s also rare to see <strong>penises<\/strong> on TV.<\/p>\n<p>Other cultures, in Asia and parts of <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Africa\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Africa<\/a>, have celebrated the <strong>penis<\/strong> historically, but there\u2019s something about this country that is still kind of backwards\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>His shoots often involve juxtapositions: for the <strong>portraits<\/strong> in the <strong>show<\/strong>, Sam, an erotic performer, drapes his erect <strong>penis<\/strong> with flora and fauna.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abIf the <strong>penis<\/strong> was at more than 45 degrees,\u00bb he explains, \u00abit was considered to be pornographic.<\/p>\n<p>What, I wonder, is the key to taking an artful <strong>penis<\/strong> <strong>image<\/strong>? \u00abI don\u2019t know,\u00bb he chuckles.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abThat\u2019s why I\u2019m still taking <strong>pictures<\/strong> of <strong>penises<\/strong>! But I do like seeing <strong>men<\/strong> own their <strong>penises<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Given all the ideas we hear about <strong>penises<\/strong> being angry and violent or whatever, I\u2019m trying to move away from that and create something more intimate and gentle.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"pullquote align-right\"><p>But if you go back to Greek statues, those <strong>penises<\/strong> are extremely small.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>So I try to unpack whose <strong>penises<\/strong> are seen as more desirable and whose aren\u2019t\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>We always have to come back to those individual <strong>men<\/strong> and their relationship to their <strong>penis<\/strong>.\u00bb His images can be thoughtful, confounding and beautiful.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abBut the <strong>show<\/strong> is about trying to move the <strong>penis<\/strong> away from pornography\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>A dick pic is a dick pic.\u00bb Does it not suggest that we are becoming more comfortable with the <strong>penis<\/strong>, though? \u00abI think that sending images via social media is still very different to dick images in popular culture, because the spaces dictate what is acceptable and what is not\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Me and My Penis, of course, also provides <strong>men<\/strong> with such a space.<\/p>\n<p>The aforementioned trans <strong>man<\/strong> talks about how hormone treatment saved him, transforming his clitoris into what is \u00abeffectively a micropenis\u00bb with 50 times more nerves and sensitivity than a normal <strong>penis<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Me and My Penis is on Channel 4 on 31 August.<\/p>\n<p>Ajamu wants to break the <strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>taboos<\/strong><\/span><\/strong> around <strong>penises<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>WARNING: This article contains a picture of a <strong>penis<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>The same production company has now commissioned a film called Me and My Penis, that will do the same for <strong>masculinity<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Penises will be seen in all their glory on the <strong>documentary<\/strong> \u2013 including a fully erect member \u2013 with Ajamu looking to change the narrative that <strong>penises<\/strong> are somehow comical or pornographic.<\/p>\n<p>Me and My Penis focuses on a cast of <strong>men<\/strong> talking about their own experiences<\/p>\n<p>The subject matter in Me and My Penis may be the genitalia themselves, but \u2013 like The Vagina Monologues \u2013 they\u2019re more a tool to <strong>show<\/strong> what it\u2019s like to be a <strong>man<\/strong> in this day and age.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"pullquote align-center\"><p>Shaminder Nahal, Commissioning Editor at Channel 4, said: \u2018The <strong>penis<\/strong> becomes a gateway through which to explore all sorts of aspects of <strong>masculinity<\/strong>.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u2018While we get to see a range of <strong>penises<\/strong> and <strong>erections<\/strong> \u2013 we also see the <strong>men<\/strong> explore deep, often hidden, feelings in their photography sessions \u2013 and start a conversation about our bodies and ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>Whether it\u2019s the assumption that <strong>men<\/strong> constantly want to have <strong>sex<\/strong>, the degrading conversations in many a TV <strong>show<\/strong> or film about <strong>penis<\/strong> size, or the <strong>lack<\/strong> of awareness around male infertility, there is a <strong>lack<\/strong> of openness and vulnerability .<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Lots of <strong>countries<\/strong> actually celebrate the <strong>penis<\/strong> in terms of it\u2019s fertility, it\u2019s aliveness and energy,\u2019 says Ajamu.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s just what Me and My Penis will do.<\/p>\n<p>Watch Me and My Penis on Channel 4 on Monday 31 August at 10pm.<\/p>\n<p>\u200bSex Clinic <strong>patient<\/strong> get told he has to &#8216;wash his <strong>penis<\/strong>&#8216; after shock confession\u200b<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;It&#8217;s sending a panic alarm to your <strong>penis<\/strong>&#8216;<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s probably been a <strong>time<\/strong> when you&#8217;ve had a pint and you&#8217;ve tried to have <strong>sex<\/strong> with somebody and it hasn&#8217;t worked and what you&#8217;ve done is made a causal relationship between the two.\u00bbYou&#8217;re pre-empting it and it&#8217;s sending a panic alarm to your <strong>penis<\/strong> that&#8217;s just like &#8216;red alert&#8217;. \u00bb \u00ab6 Sexpert Jess provided advice for both Iszy and Jason, pictured<\/p>\n<p>Vivek , a 40-year-old-IT guy wasted two years of his life trying and experimenting with home remedies, Vivek , a 40-year-old IT professional was nowhere close to finding a cure for his flaccid <strong>penis<\/strong>. \u00bb It was not only pushing him towards depression and anxiety but also, shattering the physical intimacy he had with his wife. \u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Because most <strong>men<\/strong> consider concealing ED due to the associated stigma, the <strong>lack<\/strong> of awareness around the possible treatment options is keeping them away from seeking timely clinical intervention. \u00bb There are penile implants and <strong>penis<\/strong> <strong>pumps<\/strong> can help address your problem. \u00bb<\/p>\n<p>\u00abAs the neurovascular structure of the <strong>penis<\/strong> is smaller and far more sensitive than the rest of the <strong>body<\/strong>, a <strong>man<\/strong>\u2019s sexual health is often the first to <strong>show<\/strong> signs of damage. \u00bb Take for example Atherosclerosis, a condition in which the arterial walls harden because of a build-up of plaque.<\/p>\n<p>Due to the smaller network of blood vessels in the <strong>penis<\/strong>, they are more likely to get blocked first, leading to erectile dysfunction\u00bb, says Dr Vasan S S, Uro-Andrologist, Chairman at Manipal Fertility, Bengaluru. \u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Did you know that long working hours, sedentary lifestyles, and <strong>lack<\/strong> of physical activity can be precursors to ED? How? For instance, working professionals like Vivek develop symptoms of high cholesterol, type-2 diabetes and hypertension due to hectic routines. \u00bb And the patients with such aforementioned co-morbidities are more prone to progress towards an increased risk of ED than a normal person. \u00bb Furthermore, physiological factors like obesity and injury to the urinary system, spinal cord or <strong>penis<\/strong> can also lead to erectile dysfunction. \u00bb<\/p>\n<p>With advancement in the field of andrology, patients with ED now have a better chance of enjoying personal moments. \u00bb Take, for instance, Penis <strong>pumps<\/strong>. \u00bb \u00abA <strong>penis<\/strong> pump is a hollow tube with a hand-powered or battery-powered pump. \u00bb The tube is placed over your <strong>penis<\/strong>, and then the pump is used to suck out the air inside the tube.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-169 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/amaliafoka.com\/breaking-the-silence\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/penis-3.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This creates a vacuum that increases the flow of blood in the veins of your <strong>penis<\/strong>, helping you to achieve and sustain a firm erection\u00bb, says Dr Vasan. \u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, there are patients who require deeper clinical assistance from surgical procedures to help recover from ED. \u00bb A case in point, Penile implants . \u00bb This treatment involves surgically placing the devices into both sides of the <strong>penis<\/strong>. \u00bb While the inflatable devices allow you to control the timing of maintaining an erection, the semi-rigid rods keep your <strong>penis<\/strong> firm but bendable. \u00bb<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"highlight\" style=\"background-color: #666666; color: #ffffff;\">The text of this article was generated by the <a href=\"https:\/\/amaliafoka.com\/breaking-the-silence\/index.php\/about\/\">Breaking The Silence<\/a> system that collected <strong>7<\/strong> news articles posted on the web from January 2019 to September 2020 and clustered for the taboo subjects related to the penis<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Me and My Penis was a British television first tonight as it aired the first-ever erect penises on our screens. 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